Motherhood moments I didn’t know I needed.

I can say that in the past I had never felt “maternal” as people say. Never intensely yearned for babies or fantasized about raising a family, as the other women around me did. I didn’t feel the pressure of coming into my late twenties and needing to feel “settled down” or looking ahead before the biological clock started its journey of transition into the ticking time-bomb (as people like to remind women).

Anyways, fast forward and here I am with my first son, completely immersed in the complexities of motherhood, with a heart overflowing with love and gratitude.
This tiny beautiful human who I really believe was sent to me by some sort of angel to heal my heart and show me the deeper layers of life.

I learn so much from him about myself each day; how I show up, how I resist and where the work still really needs to be done. It’s kinda funny, when I reflect on my journey so far and of the times I had a sense of “Ok, I’ve figured that part of myself out now and have overcome the things I don’t want anymore” - then boom, my son comes along and in the most loving way, shows me that triggers are indeed still there in some way and wounds can still be ever so tender.

Above all and since day one, he teaches me presence. True, intentional presence. As mundane as routine can get at times with motherhood (and life in general), the mind can drift so easily into a cascade of thinking and anticipating.
I change his nappy on the changing table and after a few moments of being caught in wild trails of thought of endless to-do lists, I look down and there he is staring back at me and smiling. I do a quick u-turn back to join him where I’m supposed to be….the present moment. I start to feel a bit silly for being so far away yet again but he reminds me that I’m still loveable even if I make mistakes.

He’s so fascinated by everything and so, I contemplate when child-like innocence and wonder begins to fade in life. When do we begin to hurry through life rather than stop and look at the trees or birds? When do we become so chameleon like just to blend in with our surroundings and others? Curious kids really turn us back into curious kids and it’s an aspect of motherhood I didn’t know I needed so much until it happened.

I am so greatly humbled by and eternally grateful for this journey as it unfolds.

Between birth and becoming.

It is said that a mother is born alongside her baby; stepping into a new world both tender and wild. I have learned that motherhood completely reshapes us; body, mind, and soul. As society has put it, women are plagued with the notion of
“returning to our old selves” or “getting back to normal after pregnancy”.
In the midst of these postpartum notions, I pondered to myself:
would my old self handle this transition and load? Most probably not.

The poem below is a gentle whisper to every mother navigating the postpartum journey. A reminder that you are seen and never alone.


Oh, But Darling...

Your old self ceased to exist,
in fact, many moons ago.
When you were none the wiser,
chosen by this little soul.

There is no “normal” to hurry back to,
only a new you to unfold.
Fear not that you are lost, my dear,
your arms were made to hold.

Breathe, my love— there’s no need to rush.
Your weariness is sacred.
Be tender, quiet —pause and hush,
identity stripped, lay naked.

The dishes can wait, as can the world.
It’s you this little soul looks upon.
Be fully there, tuned in, aware—
for tears at midnight and the quiet dawn.

So, darling, be gentle in this space,
hold yourself as you do your child.
Dance through the chaos with reverence and grace.
In your softness, you are still wild.

Written by Amy Broderick - June 2025

Yoga & mental health.

As modern science is finally catching on, yoga is more than just a physical practice—it’s a powerful tool for emotional well-being. By combining movement, breath and mindfulness practices, the ancient system of yoga offers endless benefits for our modern world’s mental health. So what exactly does yoga do -
beyond giving you a fit & agile body?

1. Reduces stress, anxiety & other mental imbalances.
Yoga helps calm the mind by activating the body’s relaxation response (or the parasympathetic nervous system AKA rest and digest mode). Deep and conscious breathing techniques lower stress hormones and promote a sense of calm.

2. Improves mood and emotional balance
Certain yoga poses can help release stored tension, boost mood and encourage the release of endorphins - the body’s natural mood enhancers. Regular practice has been shown to reduce symptoms of depression and increase feelings of happiness.

3. Self awareness.
Yoga teaches mindfulness, which helps you become more aware of your thoughts and emotions without judgment. This increased awareness allows you to better understand your mental patterns, empowering you to respond to situations with greater clarity and calm.

4. Builds Resilience
The mental focus required in yoga cultivates resilience. Learning to stay present in uncomfortable practices and situations can translate to staying calm during life’s challenges. Yoga encourages patience, perseverance, and the ability to adapt, all of which strengthen emotional resilience.

5. Fosters Connection and Community
Yoga connects you not only with yourself but also with others. Whether practicing in a studio or virtually, the shared experience fosters a sense of community and belonging, which is crucial for mental well-being.

By embracing yoga, you are nurturing a deeper connection to your body, mind and emotions - and so, paving the way for a healthier, more balanced life. Make time for your practice - your future self will thank you!

Finding light in darkness.

In life, we all encounter moments of darkness—times when we feel lost, overwhelmed, or consumed by despair. Yet, amongst the shadows, there is always a glimmer of light waiting to be discovered. It is in these moments of darkness that we have the opportunity to really find our inner strength, resilience, and capacity for growth.

Finding light in the darkness begins with acknowledging and accepting our struggles. It's okay to feel overwhelmed or uncertain; these emotions are a natural part of the human experience. However, it's important not to let them define us.

Perhaps one of the most powerful ways to find solace can be through self-reflection and self-care. Taking the time to nurture our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being can help us build resilience and come home to our place of inner peace. Whether it's through meditation, journaling, spending time in nature, or connecting with loved ones, finding moments of solace and rejuvenation can help us navigate even the trickiest of times.

Finding light in the darkness often involves reaching out for support and connection. Whether it's through therapy, support groups, or simply talking to your friends or family member, sharing our struggles can help us feel less alone and more supported on our journey.

By reframing our challenges as opportunities for growth and learning, we can cultivate a sense of resilience and empowerment. Every setback, failure, or hardship has the potential to teach us valuable lessons and help us become stronger, more compassionate individuals.

Finding light in the darkness is a journey—one that requires courage, resilience, and unwavering faith in ourselves and the world around us. As we navigate life's twists and turns, let us remember that even in the darkest of times, there is always a glimmer of light waiting to guide us forward. By embracing our struggles, nurturing our well-being, and seeking support and connection, we can find hope, strength, and resilience in the face of adversity.

Light cannot see inside things.
That is what the dark is for:
Minding the interior,
Nurturing the draw of growth
Through places where death
In its own way turns into life.

- extract from John O Donohue “For Light”